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Is The Condition Curable?


Treating sexual dysfunctions without healing the causes is like pasting wallpaper over a cracked wall and hoping it will stick.  Treating symptoms by prescribing medications such as viagra or its offspring when the causes remain unhealed may actually make sexual problems worse, depute the attempts from the drug companies to persuade doctors that they are doing the right thing by 'kick-starting' the patient into action! (This is a bit like treating insomnia caused by real anxieties by prescribing sleeping pills without attending to the anxieties). The medical profession has classified premature ejaculation as untreatable. This is because there has not been a

Five Important Keys Continued…


Key No.3 The Difference Between Arousal & Ejaculation Cycles During sexual stimulation and arousal there are two sexual processes going on within you. One is your arousal cycle and the other is your ejaculation cycle. These two cycles are linked through sexual stimulation but they are not the same; they are two distinct processes. The arousal cycle is the combination of subtle teamwork between your hormones and your mind. The ejaculation cycle is a combination between your nervous system and your mind. The triggers that affect arousal appear to happen on the ‘outside’. The feelings leading up to ejaculation, however,

Evolutionary Ages of Sexual Consciousness in the World: Part 1


In order to prepare our mind - for the shifts required in understanding Quantum Sex - we must look at the collective, cultural evolution of sexual consciousness because it is into a collective consciousness that we are conditioned sexually. These cultural ideas surrounding sex, I call the ‘Evolutionary Ages of Sex’. Today we are living in a new phase in the continuous evolution of human consciousness and intellect. On one level this is plain to see; in areas of technology, Internet and telecommunications for example. In the field of medical science, we now take for granted the curative treatments, medications and surgical procedures enabling

Society’s Adolescence


Since the dawning of the ‘little blue pill’ era it has become commonplace for doctors to prescribe the ‘wonder drug’ or one of its fast expanding family for virtually any and all sexual problems that are presented at the general practice.  In some cases this is helpful and appropriate but in many cases is not, and in such cases more harm than good is done in the longer run by re-enforcing a view suspected by the patient that something is physically wrong rather than offering the patient hope that he, or she, has every right to look for and expect

Five Important Keys


Key No. 1      Your Sexual Relationship is a Gift Sexuality is not something you ‘do’. It expresses an important facet of who you are. Sex is a gift, a vital creative energy. You don’t need to work harder at sex. Open yourself to the ever-present potential of your natural sexuality. You were born with the capability to share mutually pleasurable sexual energy within the context of a consensual relationship. Negative thoughts, emotions, feelings and circumstances impair the natural flow of a good sexuality. Loosen up and allow it to happen. Let go of striving, trying and worrying. Discover

Soul-ution Key Number Four: Direct Experience of Sexual Discovery Continued…


The ICASA Sexual Recovery Programme is a system that can be understood and followed by everyone irrespective of culture, background, occupation, age or social position. It does not require any particular belief; healthy scepticism and the willingness to question everything is helpful. Anyone who follows the step-by-step system and practices the set exercises will begin to develop new senses, producing an inner understanding of life and how they relate to the world. They will become conscious of their thoughts, feelings and choices as they happen. They will gradually become aware of their conditioned thinking and no longer be dominated by

The Fifth Type of Sex


We enter the Fifth Type of Sex through a gateway leading to an intimate relationship with the cosmos. It is spread beyond us, waiting to be explored like the beloved surrendering to a lover. This gateway is our soul, our psyche. It opens before us, waiting and wanting to be undressed; revealing reality, truth and beauty. Nothing now exists alone, separated by time or distance. Nothing on the surface appears to change, except that as you shift one to the other, your entire world changes. Quantum Sex is a fusion, not just of two people and two bodies. It is not simply a fusion

Sexuality Without Anxiety


To open up the ‘Gateway’ to sexuality without anxiety - which is within everyone without exception - to make the shift from “Outside-In” sex to an intimacy based “Inside-Out” experience of infinite possibilities, requires some changes to be made. These changes start in the mind.  The old saying that “sex is in the mind” is nowhere truer than at this starting point.  Unfortunately, as with most old sayings it has been misinterpreted to suggest that sex becomes sexier if the mind is active with sexual fantasy.  This is sadly not true.  In fact, most fantasies are being entertained by the

Soul-ution Key Number Four: Direct Experience of Sexual Discovery


When sex goes wrong, men and women usually seek help to discover how to ‘do’ sex better.  The first thing that they discover is that they have been ‘doing it wrong’ from the start.  They need to let go of their deeply held need to prove their ‘Outside-In’ approach to sex and to discover the power of the ‘Inside-Out’ sexual model. To reach the heights of true sexuality a couple do not need to go faster or harder, but slower and deeper.  ‘Inside-Out Sex’, merging the balanced energies of masculine and feminine leads beyond previous horizons and restores the body

Restoring Intimacy


By following these blogs, any couple can discover that overcoming performance anxiety or  intimacy problems is easier than you think. It is largely due to the experiences and circumstances of your conditioning that you have become anxious about sexual relationships. You were born with everything you need to enjoy your sexual relationship. You will discover your natural, inbuilt confidence as you read these blogs, and practice the intimacy exercises that I will describe in them. It is like learning to ride a bike or to swim; activities that most of us take for granted but that when you first embark on them