Premature ejaculation is when a man consistently ejaculates involuntarily. Ejaculation should be the result of a conscious decision. There is no ‘normal’ time sexual intercourse should take but the normal expectation should be that on most occasions, a man ejaculates when he chooses to do so. This should, of course, be at a time when his partner is ready for him to ejaculate. In order to teach men ejaculatory control, traditional sexual therapy routinely emphasises the practice of external techniques such as the "Squeeze Technique", made famous by Masters and Johnson in the 1960's. While this and other rather outdated
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Electricity and magnetism are amazing universal forces that sustain not only this planet but the entire solar system. This combination of electromagnetic forces is evident all around us and available to us every moment of our life. One only has to think of the everyday tasks that we perform in the home, office or factory to realise how much we depend upon electricity and magnetism. Yet neither of these great forces originates in the instrument that organises them. In other words, electricity does not originate in the electrical plug, the light switch or the television set and magnetism does not
The soul is “twin-sexed”. Souls are androgynous, both feminine and masculine. This twin-sexed nature is a perfectly balanced blend of masculine and feminine energy. The embryonic baby in the uterus is both male and female, sharing sexual organs that will become either male or female at a particular stage in the womb. Its gender destiny is determined at a level of organisation, intelligence and existence higher than that understood by even the most advanced medical science; by the effect of chromosomes on the physical body. Chromosomes are thread-like structures emanating from the chromosphere – a reddish, gaseous realm that lies
ICASA Mentors are motivated by their desire to share their knowledge; compassionate, and possess the attributes of a good 'guide'. Our mentors are committed to guiding and empowering clients to develop their own strengths, beliefs, and personal attributes through the ICASA Sexual Recovery Programme. At The Centre for ICASA the Mentor is responsible to the Principal of ICASA. The role of an ICASA Mentor is to: Guide the client through the steps of the ICASA Sexual Recovery Programme in such a way that the client feels safe and understands the principles, purpose and boundaries of each step of the
Have you ever considered your genitals to be beautiful? Then again, can you look at your partner’s genitals and see beauty in much the same way as you might see beauty when you look in their eyes? Were you taught that genitals were ‘dirty’? Were you told not to touch your genitals because it is ‘disgusting’? By opening yourself to the beauty of genitals, you can integrate your whole body, mind and soul rather than segregating yourself into separate and divided entities called ‘sexual parts’ and ‘non-sexual parts’. We all have body feelings originating from memories ‘stored’ in the genitals.
Did you realise that your relationship provides you with the power to have, or achieve, anything you truly desire? I repeat: your relationship invests you with the power to have, or achieve, anything you truly desire. Not many couples discover this extraordinary power, which is decreed by Universal Law. Of course, this astonishing power is not to be the primary reason for having an intimate relationship; the motivation for a relationship should be that of love. Having established a foundation of love, however, you are then sharing the privilege of royalty: to have anything you truly desire. I can make
The human body is an amazing, mysterious structure drawn out of forces from the cosmos over unimaginable periods of space-time. No known feat of engineering could manufacture the elbow or the ankle to the same degree of perfection as human bone structure. No textile, however fine and precious, could replicate human skin. No computer expert could build a machine to replace or even rival the human head. No jewel, crystal or precious stone could usurp the human eye. Consider the ears, tongue and the vocal chords. The human digestive and reproductive systems are staggering in their complexity and mystery. Everything
The Sixth Stage of Sexual Development is reached when an individual, or a couple, can experience a particular range of orgasmic states at will. This Stage begins with an expansion from genital orgasm to whole-body orgasm, and is available to both men and women. In men, it is orgasm beyond ejaculation. In women, it is orgasms beyond the clitoris. It is an aspect of life-force control, attained and enjoyed by certain individuals and couples who are able to develop a relationship that includes intimacy and sexuality at a sufficiently open and truthful level of consciousness. Experienced authentically, the sixth
Initial Training and Internship Programme Training to become an accredited Surrogate Partner Therapist is a one-year programme. The Initial Induction Training Course is conducted over the first four-month period or through sixteen days of training arranged by mutual agreement. The curriculum is made up of a combination of learning, self-development and experiential practices through training workshops. Successful attendance, suitability and aptitude over a period of training is followed by an invitation to embark on an internship of six or twelve months at The Centre for ICASA in Bedfordshire, England during which the intern works as a trainee Surrogate Partner on
The first four Stages of Sexual Development that have so far been described in these blogs use energy from the physical body for fuel, culminating in an explosive release of energies into the environment. They are necessary, to feed nature. Innocent Sex has very little energetic substance, being mostly passive. In some cases, however, it can release significant quantities of dense energy that sustains states such as anxiety and fear. Instinctual Sex sustains animal life, Primal Sex feeds vegetation and Power Sex feeds the world’s ego. The fifth stage, Metaphysical Sex, feeds the soul and also feeds relationships. This stage is inaccessible to those stuck in Outside-In, or Simple