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Five Important Keys

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

Key No. 1      Your Sexual Relationship is a Gift Sexuality is not something you ‘do’. It expresses an important facet of who you are. Sex is a gift, a vital creative energy. You don’t need to work harder at sex. Open yourself to the ever-present potential of your natural sexuality. You were born with the capability to share mutually pleasurable sexual energy within the context of a consensual relationship. Negative thoughts, emotions, feelings and circumstances impair the natural flow of a good sexuality. Loosen up and allow it to happen. Let go of striving, trying and worrying. Discover

Five Important Keys2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

Soul-ution Key Number Four: Direct Experience of Sexual Discovery Continued…

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

The ICASA Sexual Recovery Programme is a system that can be understood and followed by everyone irrespective of culture, background, occupation, age or social position. It does not require any particular belief; healthy scepticism and the willingness to question everything is helpful. Anyone who follows the step-by-step system and practices the set exercises will begin to develop new senses, producing an inner understanding of life and how they relate to the world. They will become conscious of their thoughts, feelings and choices as they happen. They will gradually become aware of their conditioned thinking and no longer be dominated by

Soul-ution Key Number Four: Direct Experience of Sexual Discovery Continued…2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

The Fifth Type of Sex

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

We enter the Fifth Type of Sex through a gateway leading to an intimate relationship with the cosmos. It is spread beyond us, waiting to be explored like the beloved surrendering to a lover. This gateway is our soul, our psyche. It opens before us, waiting and wanting to be undressed; revealing reality, truth and beauty. Nothing now exists alone, separated by time or distance. Nothing on the surface appears to change, except that as you shift one to the other, your entire world changes. Quantum Sex is a fusion, not just of two people and two bodies. It is not simply a fusion

The Fifth Type of Sex2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

Sexuality Without Anxiety

2016-04-14T14:33:44+01:00

To open up the ‘Gateway’ to sexuality without anxiety - which is within everyone without exception - to make the shift from “Outside-In” sex to an intimacy based “Inside-Out” experience of infinite possibilities, requires some changes to be made. These changes start in the mind.  The old saying that “sex is in the mind” is nowhere truer than at this starting point.  Unfortunately, as with most old sayings it has been misinterpreted to suggest that sex becomes sexier if the mind is active with sexual fantasy.  This is sadly not true.  In fact, most fantasies are being entertained by the

Sexuality Without Anxiety2016-04-14T14:33:44+01:00

Soul-ution Key Number Four: Direct Experience of Sexual Discovery

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

When sex goes wrong, men and women usually seek help to discover how to ‘do’ sex better.  The first thing that they discover is that they have been ‘doing it wrong’ from the start.  They need to let go of their deeply held need to prove their ‘Outside-In’ approach to sex and to discover the power of the ‘Inside-Out’ sexual model. To reach the heights of true sexuality a couple do not need to go faster or harder, but slower and deeper.  ‘Inside-Out Sex’, merging the balanced energies of masculine and feminine leads beyond previous horizons and restores the body

Soul-ution Key Number Four: Direct Experience of Sexual Discovery2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

Restoring Intimacy

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

By following these blogs, any couple can discover that overcoming performance anxiety or  intimacy problems is easier than you think. It is largely due to the experiences and circumstances of your conditioning that you have become anxious about sexual relationships. You were born with everything you need to enjoy your sexual relationship. You will discover your natural, inbuilt confidence as you read these blogs, and practice the intimacy exercises that I will describe in them. It is like learning to ride a bike or to swim; activities that most of us take for granted but that when you first embark on them

Restoring Intimacy2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

The Fourth Type of Sex

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

The fourth type of sex is Metaphysical.  The word metaphysical is derived from meta which denotes something of a higher order, a change of condition. Metaphysical sex takes us beyond the physical body and describes sex of a higher order.  It is sex beyond the ego. It has been called ‘Tantric’ in the East and ‘Energy Sex’ or ‘Karezza’ in the West. This stage is inaccessible to those stuck in Outside-In Sex or attached to Simple Sex. It will forever remain elusive to them, trapped as they are to a purely illusionary sexual experience. This stage is for those who are preparing,

The Fourth Type of Sex2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

The Beginnings of Sexual Surrogate Partner Therapy Training in the UK

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

Our next challenge was to train our first surrogate partners. But before we could train them we had to find them.  In 1994, surrogate partner therapy was virtually unheard of in the UK and there were no surrogate partners anywhere in the country. Websites were few and far between and even email was used only by the technically initiated.  It was as though we stood on a cliff-edge: with a chasm between us—and the first trainee sexual surrogate partners in the UK. What type of people are we looking for? Where will they come from? What will motivate them? What

The Beginnings of Sexual Surrogate Partner Therapy Training in the UK2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

The Third Type of Sex

2016-03-31T12:03:32+01:00

The Third Type of Sex is the least written about or known. It is somewhat hidden from sight, and from ordinary knowledge. Inside-Out Sex is a paradigm of sex that heals; it is restorative and beneficial to individuals, relationships and society. I have worked with this model of sex for over twenty years in my professional sexual healing practice. Over those years, we have treated almost fifteen hundred men, women and couples who have suffered from sexual anxieties, dysfunctions, insecurities, addictions and fears. Inside-Out Sex is never the same twice, forever deepening. With sexual experience transformed, relationships improve; even those in crisis becoming indestructible. With fear of intimacy healed,

The Third Type of Sex2016-03-31T12:03:32+01:00

Intimacy

2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00

There are natural laws in this world that apply to everyone without exception. The law of gravity is one example. It doesn’t matter who drops an object from the edge of a table, or throws it into the air, the object will fall to the ground: gravity will ensure that it lands somewhere solid. You may be rich or poor, man or woman, old or young—it doesn’t matter who you are or where you live—gravity will work the same in your life as for any other person. In the same way, there are also universal laws that work irrespective of

Intimacy2017-05-22T11:55:53+01:00
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